In this solo episode, Ellen reflects on a recent learning she had about following a path that wasn’t hers. She shares how, when we let go of the achievements we’re measuring ourselves against and embrace our own paths,  the weight of perceived failure can fall away.

Ellen also talks about the special offer we’re running on our coaching packages for May.

For just £97 (usually £175), you can either have a half-day of Voxer, or 75 minutes on zoom with us. You have to book your space by the end of May to use the offer, and to book just email us on

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  • Ellen shares her experience of walking a path that wasn’t hers, and how that led to her feeling like a failure and not living up to her potential.
  • How we look to others in our industry and peer groups to set our markers of success.
  • Letting go of the socially approved path, and how that helps us to reframe our beliefs and successes.
  • Leaning into your intuition to listen to your inner curiosity and interests.

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Ellen and Kate x